Sharing wisdom that comes from parenting our parents
If you are currently caring for a loved one, you already know that "survival mode" isn't just a phase—sometimes, it feels like the entire job description. In the thick of managing medications, navigating doctors' appointments, and balancing your own life, it is incredibly easy to feel entirely powerless. The sheer volume of daily challenges can …
Continue reading "The Caregiver’s Paradox: Finding Power When You Feel Powerless"
Some days, scrolling through social media feels less like catching up with the world and more like wandering into a middle school cafeteria with no adult supervision. Grown adults—people who presumably manage mortgages, raise children, and operate motor vehicles—sling insults, dodge responsibility, and perform outrage with the kind of enthusiasm usually reserved for toddlers denied …
Continue reading "Caregiving and the Quiet Discipline of Growing Up"
When people think about caregiving, they often imagine the big, heavy moments: medical appointments, medications, emergencies, end-of-life decisions. What doesn’t get talked about as much are the smaller, quieter skills we develop along the way—the ones that don’t come with instructions but shape us just as deeply. One of those skills is learning how to …
I have posted about loss before, as it concerns family and caregiving. Loss of personhood of a loved one due to the ravages of dementia. Loss of who we, the caregivers, were before the demands of the job changed us. There is also the ultimate loss to death that we know approaches but work so …
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