Managing Mental Health Declines
Funny how caregiving issues have turned topical. Mental health declines used to be a topic of conversation only in certain circles. Now it is a the topic receiving lots of attention – and rightly so.
The pandemic has added emotional challenges to our repertoire of personal growth events. All of us have confronted lifestyle changes, as well as encountered an incessant rant from the media about conforming to prescribed thoughts and behaviors we did not have before the crisis. With all of this change and hysteria, it is no wonder that psychological grounding has suffered for many.
Expressions
Mental Health declines are common in the aging community. From degenerative changes in brain function to physical aging and drug interactions, older individuals commonly exhibit changes in behavior and judgement. Hence, the necessary changes in living circumstances (i.e., assisted living) and the addition of physical helpers (caregivers!) to keep these affected individuals safe.
What has been unique about recent events is the increase in the expression of mental health issues in the public. As once socially acceptable coping strategies (specific social communities) have fallen out of political favor, younger individuals are exhibiting struggles with their responses to current events.
Egged on by a segment of the media that is happy to promote unhealthy thoughts and actions in a vulnerable population, we have some very public displays of emotional disquiet. The lack of approved treatment measures, as well as attempts to normalize these unstable behaviors by the same groups who created the problem, individuals are alienated from their surrounding communities.
Losing a sense of belonging can have profound effects on how individuals cope with life.
Age is Just a Number
With some high-profile individuals garnering headlines over their age and mental acuity, the unspoken message is that age and declines in mental health are on a spectrum. The politicians in the news demonstrate changes in their health statuses and are not indicators of their chronological age.
Certain ages do not automatically equate with mental feebleness.
Many of my role models have been quite to the contrary.
I once treated an 85-year-old gentleman for some minor back pain. As I took his history, he shared with me in an agitated fashion that he had recently had shoulder surgery and while he continued to participate in robust physical activities, he could no longer waterski.
I can only hope I will have such physical limitation complaints by the time I reach that age.
Implementing Solutions
In approaching individuals with mental health issues (which may be us too!), finding and employing sound solutions is essential.
As with any problem, acknowledging that there is a problem is the first step. A parent is not just being forgetful when they cannot remember which house they live in. The same goes for a younger individual experiencing a loss of emotional control. Facing the hard truth is the first task.
When an individual becomes impaired, they are impaired. No amount of wishful thinking changes that.
The second step is to assess the circumstances. Family comes to mind first as sources of support, but as I have shared before, do not get your hopes up. Families’ willingness to respond are variable.
Next, identify professional resources. The person may need qualified evaluation and treatment. Do not make everything about money. Professional care is always costly, but it is also very worth the investment.
Lastly, rinse and repeat.
Mental health situations require the addition of professional help. Your caregiving expertise continues to be a vital part of a person’s care. Sometimes it takes a team to care for the one person.
The important thing is to continue to be there for that person.
“It is naively assumed that the fact that the majority of people share certain ideas and feelings proves the validity of these ideas and feelings. Nothing could be further from the truth. Consensual validation as such has no bearing on reason or mental health.”
― Erich Fromm